Thinking back thru all the years, I have come from nothing to the road leading somewhere great and I want to motivate everyone around me about the essence of loving who we are. I so much love every single word of Whitney Houston's greatest love of all song, the song is so much an inspiration.
So many times, we get disappointing in ourselves when we make mistakes: we hate ourselves, we wish we could hurt someone, we wish we could undo the wrong but we can't. So many people have lost value in themselves; they feel inferior when in d midst of contemporaries. Oh, how we forget that we are humans!
Humans are prone to make mistakes, we almost cannot stop making mistakes, we can only manage ourselves not to make the same kind of mistakes everytime. No matter what we do wrong, the first step at becoming better is to embrace who we are, love yourself!
Love is really an essential part of life that can right so many wrongs, it may not be be able to undo them but can help you get ahead! We need to embrace the beauty in each mistake we make and move ahead! Life cannot always give us what we plan for, we have to get what we want out of life!
Considering every word in the whitney houston's song: most of us are walking in the shadows of some other people, and yet we can't see the deeper secrets of their lives and we hate ourselves for making mistakes that they might have made also! We see these people smiling on the outside, we do not know what they have gone through inside of them!
I want to encourage everyone reading this piece today, give yourself a sense of pride and value. A lot changes when yogu truly love yourself:
• you make good decisions for yourself,
• you believe in yourself,
• you dont let anyone treat you less than you deserve to be treated,
• loving yourself motivates you, it gives you strength frm the inside, you dont need to depend on anyone.
• You won't hate anyone for walking out of your life, u understand ur content and what you carry.
There is really so much value in loving yourself. Never be afraid to make mistakes, only pick out the lessons in your mistakes and be ready to do better next time.
One thing I've realised is that, as much as friends at times may want to sympathize with us in our difficulties, they can never feel our pain as much as we do! So this tells me that I need to find strength from inside of me and not outside, I need to be my own best friend, I need to make the decisions that will take me to my future, no one is gonna do that for me.
"And if by chance that special place, that you'v been dreaming of, brings you to a lonely place, find your strength in love"
My words to you today: whatever u'r going through or you've just been through: heartbreak, financial loss, failure, regrets or whatsoever, love urself!
Love yourself not to hate the other party that has left or has wronged you, dnt console urself by bringing out the bad side of the person or wishing him or her bad! Love yourself to see the great value in YOU! You are all you've got, love yourself and depend on no one.
Forgive those that av wronged you in the past, stop regretting your past! Free urself frm the bondage of the past! Freedom is a great feeling and most times it's got a price! Be willing to pay whatever price it is you have to, just aspire to be free! Love is the first step!
If you don't love urself, you can't love anyone else! Be honest with yourself and dont love pretenciously! Love yourself, give your self the best, spoil yourself when you need to. Spread the love to people around you!
• When I say love yourself, I am not talking abt you just saying you love yourself! I am talking about you practising love towards yourself.
• When you love urself, you don't make decisions that can threaten your future, you don't take substances that are harmful to your health, you don't do things that can badly affect your prestige! Love yourself by action and not by words!
• When you love yourself, you don't degrade yourself by doing wrong everytime, you learn from your past and become better, you tell yourself and face the truth always.
• Learn to love yourself by not messing up your body, treat yourself right!
"Learning to love yourself is the greatest. love of all"
I Love ME! Happy birthday to ME!
By @tospet16
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