Stop Going Back to Your Vomits - @OLATUNJISPEAKS

There is a theory that says men usually desire that which they cannot have. Hence, they invest their energy in projects that wouldn’t yield dividend for them – this is the bane of our issues in life. There are certain things you’ve once tried to have or do and gotten to a point; after much consideration, decided that you shouldn’t be doing this but after some fraternizing with it again we get all emotional and consider the option again. The problem with this is that we end up frustrated and dejected like we were the first time. Not all Ex’es should be taken back – you shouldn’t go out with him or her because he or she came back – if the issues which stopped you in the first place have not been resolved, you may end up in disappointment like the first time.

Many times when it concerns emotional matters, it is difficult to let go and accept that we cannot have some things. This is why some people break up to go back to an Ex but they eventually get hurt because they made the decision without asking if the fundamental reasons why they broke up in the first place have been addressed. Don’t get emotional about it, you cannot solve this one with emotions but with wisdom and a book refers to Wisdom as the principal thing (the most important thing). Wisdom is knowing when to let go and when to hold on – please stop holding on to what may kill you.

I have been close to some women in the past but one or two reasons made it impossible for us to either date or consider dating and I found out that each time I have close conversations with them the emotions come rushing back. I usually consider the possibility of getting something on with them but I remember what wisdom is and try to make the best decision for myself. This situations have risen in other aspects of my life aside relationships too and I simply try to do the same thing – don’t get it twisted! It is not as easy as I’m saying it but with a lot of self belief it is possible. Think about the fact that you don’t want to be going round in circles and you want to make a headway.

Stop Going Back to Your Vomits, it is not good for your life – whatever you vomit is probably not good for your system at the time which is why your body rejected it. Our life is a system, there are things we have carefully vomited in the past; some in relationships, businesses, academics, habits, character and in other areas of life – you need not go back to them. Your life is probably better for it; look at your life well and only if your life and future will not be better for it, should you go back to those vomits.