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Most couples enjoy the idea of turning on their respective sides and snoozing after a steamy session of sex. But not us! We believe in making the most of the precious moments after sex. The time right after sex gives you a chance to reconnect and bond with your partner. If you can’t think beyond cuddling and sleeping, here are 10 romantic things you can do after a love-making session.
Eat in bed
After some great sex, you’re sure to get hungry. Sex is like a workout, the best one! You also burn a lot of calories and your body craves food. So, fix a quick meal for yourself and your partner, lie in bed and eat while cuddling.
Talk
Talking after sex is a good way to rekindle the flame and even improve the communication between you both. Since both of you are going to be in a good mood, it’s a great time to bring up important topics. However, don’t get too serious as that could be a mood killer. Stick to light-hearted topics.
Take self portraits
Memorialise this amazing moment on the camera after getting frisky. You will have a natural post-orgasm glow, so no need for make up and post editing.
Get touchy
You don’t have to be a boring couple and fall asleep after some hot steamy sex. Spending some time in bed touching each other after the deed can be really romantic. Whether you’re watching TV or just talking, subtle and light touches are really cute.
Cuddle
Okay, so this one goes without saying. Cuddling and spooning after sex is one of the best ways to let your partner know that you adore them. Who doesn’t like spooning after some forking, right?
Reconnect
There are several ways to reconnect with your partner. You can talk, cuddle, touch etc. But, sometimes there’s some charm in just lying next to each other in silence and staring at one another. You would whisper sweet nothings or just share a beautiful moment in silence.
Laugh
Who doesn’t enjoy a good laugh, right? Guys totally dig girls who have a sense of humour. After sex, share a joke or say something that will make him laugh. Laughing together is a great way to get closer to each other.
Discuss the future
Okay, this has nothing to do about your future with him, but future plans in general. You both can discuss your dreams, hopes and plans for the future. Like a place you want to travel or a dream job maybe. This a really nice way to know each other and connect. Especially if it’s a one-night stand.
Watch a movie
Watching a movie after making love is a pretty good idea. Avoid anything serious or teary. Pick something light and fun. It’s a nice way to bond.
Source: iDiva
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