Many times , we always desire to look at other people for our source of inspiration, our source of motivation , there is sense in it but it doesn't always have to be so. We could all try being our own motivation, we don't always strife for our own success, our own goal but keep lamenting on the unfairness of life.
Definitely, no man is an island and a man who asks doesn't get lost but when you ask "way" too much you position yourself to the world as a confused person. Recently I found myself watching a program "My 600 pound life" and I changed was like "wow! That big?" And the funny thing is that the friends of the lady in question were all telling her to loose weight and watch what she ate blah blah and nothing happened.
Everything changed when she started having pains in her bones and she told herself "I don't want to die", "I don't want to leave my daughter and husband"; not until she told herself her own truth, she looked Inside, tapped from her internal strength and declared "I must loose this fat"; until she motivated herself, she made resolution to fight fat. Most times we keep having the same mistakes, it isn't because no one is advising us but because we aren't ready to change, we are not ready to make a difference, life indeed is a beautiful teacher, the people around you are spectators, you are the only actor in your game, when you begin to motivate yourself to do certain things, you will feel that change in your relationship, your business, your work and everything around you.
That is why the most beautiful thing you can do for yourself is believe in your strength, know your limits, don't push against your reach just because someone out there is telling what you can and can't do, look inside yourself and feel your capacity. It is never going to be easy, all you have to do is be your motivation and soar high, it is in me it is in you.
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