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It’s a known fact that doggy style is the most loved sex position. It brings out your primal instincts and can be quite wild and sexy. However, most times, this position is only enjoyed by men as women tend to get uncomfortable and feel ignored. But, we bring you 9 moves that will help you enjoy this position as much as him. Try them out, tonight!
Balance out
While your man is enjoying himself during the act, there are chances of you getting distracted and worried about your balance. And the distraction is going to take away the focus from the sensations. So, before you begin, stabilise yourself first. Use a piece of furniture or headboard for support.
Make use of your hands
Don’t be surprised if your partner gets a bit self-involved in this position. Doggy style is one position which doesn’t allow him to pay too much attention to your clitoris. But, don’t deprive yourself and use your hands to have your own fun.
Slow and steady
Your man can totally lose control in this position and go all fast and furious. If you like it slow and nice, tweak the pace by changing the position. Try getting as close to him as you can to make him go slow and steady.
Take control
Another way to control pace is by letting him know that you’re in charge tonight. This works best when you’re doing it standing up. Wrap your arms around and push him in and out according to the pace you want.
Use a pillow
Like we mentioned earlier, if your clits are feeling ignored, place a pillow below your hips. Press into it in between the action to stimulate your clitoris. Now, that’s what we call a win-win.
Fantasise
The best thing about this position is that you’re not facing each other. Which means you don’t have to worry about your awkward facial expressions. Besides that, feel free to drift into your wild fantasies and make your weirdest orgasm face, he’s not watching.
Add some drama
To add some fun and eroticism, ask him to drip warm honey or melted chocolate on your shoulder and back and ask him to lick it off you in between the breaks. This will add a sensuous touch to your act.
Hit the G-spot
This position gives him a good chance to hit your G-spot. Lower your shoulders a bit and keep your head low for maximum pleasure.
Say it out loud
Guys can get a little selfish in this position. So, encourage him when it feels good by saying how amazing he is and keep shut when it doesn’t. He will know what moves to work on.
Source: iDiva
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